7 tips for buying a wedding dress that only looks expensive.
In 2015, Canadian brides are spending an average of $1,779 on their wedding dress, making that gorgeous gown one of the biggest expenses of the day. But can you spend less and still look like a million bucks?
Yes! With planning and persistence, you can find the perfect (and perfectly affordable) wedding dress of your dreams. And every dollar saved will help, especially since a BMO InvestorLine® study reports that Canadians fund 60 per cent of their wedding costs with savings — while the remaining 40 per cent comes from parents, loans and gifts from friends.
Before you shop for that show-stopping dress, take note of these seven money-saving tips:
- Start early: Give yourself plenty of time to find your ideal outfit. Some experts suggest budgeting eight or nine months, since it may take six months to order in your dress, plus a couple of months for multiple fittings and alterations.
- Do some dress research: Are you envisioning a ball gown or a classic vintage style? Flip through Pinterest®†, and start a collection of your favourite styles. As you look, consider the venue, season and time of day — as well as which styles are going to be the most flattering. Think about current dresses you own (is there a go-to shape you love?), and take a peek at this guide to gowns.
If your ceremony is in a house of worship, don’t forget to check if there are any attire restrictions (for example, you may need to wear a shawl over a strapless dress) before buying a wedding dress.
- Create a realistic budget: Once you have an idea of what you like, it’s time to set a price. Choose an affordable amount to spend on the dress, accessories and alterations. Retailers may mark a wedding dress up by 200 per cent, so if you’re looking to spend less, try ca-dresses.com (styles start at just over $100), consider renting a dress, or look through the bridal collection at J. Crew®‡.
- Size up your options: Wedding dresses are typically two sizes larger than regular clothing (it’s not you!). Try on a few dresses at bridal shops in your area to determine the right size and fit. If a shop has sample sizes only, be sure to ask their professional seamstress to take your measurements (this will be incredibly helpful if you end up buying a dress online). If you get a gown that’s way too small or large, you could end up shelling out for significant alteration fees.
- Shop online and off: Budget-conscious brides should check out sites like Overstock.com and consignment sellers like eBay®**. You can also find great values at vintage clothing stores, mass discount stores and sample sales. Attending one of the four annual Bridal Swap events in Canada — scheduled for 2016 in Vancouver, Calgary, Edmonton and London — may also help you score a deal by buying a wedding dress from a former bride.
- Start your own tradition: Did you know that Anne Hathaway and Jessica Biel wore pink wedding dresses? And Sarah Jessica Parker chose a gorgeous black gown? If you don’t love how you look in white, consider buying a wedding dress that’s a favourite tried-and-true colour. You may find a non-traditional dress for much less!
- Remember that the dress is your decision: Chances are, you’ll know when you’ve found the dress, but you may feel overwhelmed if there are too many opinions in the room. Instead of an entourage, consider bringing only a couple of people along, such as your mother and a trusted friend. Be open to their suggestions (they know you well!), but at the end of the day, it’s your choice.
Tip: Budget extra time for alterations — and avoid paying an unexpected rush fee.
Tip: This free Wedding Dress Studio app lets you upload a photo and “virtually” try on a dress — no change room required!
Tip: Don’t forget to add a few budget lines for shoes and shapewear.
Tip: Always order a bigger size to play it safe — it’s a lot easier to take a garment in than to let it out.
Tip: Make sure you check return policies carefully and understand exactly what you’re getting (pre-owned, new with or without tags, or new with defects) when wedding dress shopping. At many stores, once you officially order the dress, it’s yours, no matter what.
Tip: Check out prom and bridesmaid dresses that may double as bridal wear.
Tip: Don’t feel pressure because you’re tired of looking or a salesperson is pushing you to choose. Brides often try on up to 17 possibilities before they choose one. You want to be confident that you’ve picked the best look.
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